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30-35,
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writes:Okay I have recently been busy and tired and was too nervous to say hi to my crush but during those days that happend he had been talking to my best girl friend and when i didnt say hi to him he asked my best friend if i was mad at him or if i was avoiding him then she told him that i was really busy and tired which was true but then he said to her that i didnt seem to be busy or tired when it came to other people then he asked my friend if i was mad at the fact he and her have been talking and yesterday my friend told me all this and i told her that none of this is true and that i didn't know thats how he felt. But today i came over his house and hung out with him we slowly got comfortable passing the awkward part. Later we decided to play the piano and we sat down together on the piano bench and he played for me river flows in you and then i started playing songs for him and ended up both playing the piano together. LaterI met my crushes parents,He introduced me to his mom when she came home from work and when his dad woke up he asked me if i wanted to say hi to his dad and so i said okay and when i went to go say hi he smiled stood up and gave me a light hug and when my mom came to pick me up his dad came by us at the front door and he asked us if we got the things that were needed to be done, done and i was kinda confused when he asked but then my crush just nodded and said yeah then his ad laughed and looked down and then my crush told his dad that he was gonna say hi to my mom and so his dad stood by the door watching him and he came out to the driveway and greeted my mom and then i closed the door and he turned and stopped and walked a little closer smiled then gave me a hug and then i said bye to himMy question is does he like me or whats going on between us ?and this really isnt a question but i dont know why his dad was but my questions are does he like me or is it just a friend thing? and his dad's actions and question does it mean anything really or no?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (4 November 2009):
 Sorry that your question seems to have gotten swallowed in the pile of so many. I'll do my best to answer it.
How old are you? You sound younger than 18-21.
Okay, first thing, remember that the best person to represent you is YOU. Don't make your friends have to make excuses for you. You can be polite, even if you aren't interested in someone.
Second, it's hard to understand your question because of the punctuation and there's some pronoun confusion (which "he" you are referring to in the last few questions is very difficult to figure out), but I think you're asking if your crush likes you? I'd say he does enjoy spending time with you, if you spent time with him and had a fun time. So just be yourself.
It's polite to say hello to people's parents, they want to get to know their children's friends. (If he was being inappropriate through words or touch, be sure to let your mother know, and do not allow him to be alone with you.) Parents have a responsibility to their children to make sure they are safe, so it's important to get to meet their friends.
My advice is just to continue to get to know the boy and remember to be polite to his parents, as he should be to yours. There's no need to rush things, there's plenty of time to figure out what he might be thinking. After all, he could be just as confused as you are!
I hope this helps! Best wishes.
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