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writes:Hello, I am 16, and I am in love with one of my close friends. we live about an hour apart by public transportation, and we've only seen each other once. We met about 5 months ago, and she has been hurting me unintentionally for many months now. She's in love with her ex, who she has been trying to move on from for 4 years now, and he moved away to michigan. He still constantly talks 2 her which makes it hard, but lately, shes been getting sexual with his best friend, and she is considering that she has found her new source of happiness in him. However I hear, and Ive been told hes just a guy who uses girls for sex, and thats what worries me, but the main problem, is that I want her, and she doesnt even have feelings for me. I dont know what to do, she says that I shouldnt wait for her, because It could take many months, many years before Im an option, but I cant just get over her, its not that simple.. What can I do??
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (31 October 2009):
 The best thing you can do is accept this girl doesnt have any feelings for you and move on. As you have only ever met once I am going to assume your relationship blossomed to a point of best friends online.
I think this girl has you hooked in to her fantasy life which appears to be full of dramatic happenings and much angst.
She has already told you not to wait for her, so why not respect her wishes and move on?
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