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writes:Dear Cupid,I am sleeping with a man that is in a relationship with someone else.. Yes this is an affair... He tells me that he doesn't sleep with her often..I know that its more then I think but oh well..My question is lately his has been cumming so fast, where before he was able to hold off more.. So Does that mean that mybe he is having sex more often?? Or is he having sex less????
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): It means he is very excited to be with you and also may not be that concerned with pleasing you, but only himself, he already has proven himself to be a selfish guy if he is in a committed relationship and is screwing around with you. What ever floats your boat. I hope you are practicing safe sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): If he is finishing quickly...I would think he is not having sex very often! And as DoubleM suggests...foreplay can resolve that. Have you considered that perhaps he is using you since he doesn't get it very often from her? That is a possibility...something that is difficult to look at, but a possibility none the less.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (7 February 2009):
 This could be either, or neither. There is not enough information provided, in my opinion, to suggest. One solution, if he is finishing before you, is for him to provide you more foreplay, possibly including oral. Then, at least you would have an opportunity for orgasm in advance of his hasty finish.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): I am sorrry to say this but honestly would you like to sleep with any man who sleeps with someone else??? often or seldom whatever.. Like doesnt that make you feel so terrible? First of all, you should have some self respect. Secondly, youre helping a man cheat over his gf or wife or whatever.. I am sure youre a wonderful girl.. Its not that hard to find good guys.. Find a single guy and sleep with him. Rather than being with the guy who youre not sure as to if hes sleeping with someone else or not..sorry for being meanbut high time you realize this or youd suffer more near the end as time makes feelings stronger and then itd b harder for your heart to take the heartache..so just let go off himand find someone else :)
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