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reader, Peteandfiona  +, writes (2 November 2014):
My wife would never sunbathe topless when we first met although I always wanted her to (she even wore a bra under a bikini top once).This was because she thought she had unusual boobs! After a lot of encouragement she did take her top off when we were on holiday and had met up with new friends. Although it was an embarrassing situation back then (mainly for me)- she is now a keen naturist .
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reader, zyxwxxx  +, writes (3 July 2014):
I would love it! She has gone topless once. She was nude once when there was no one else on the beach. Both of us loved those experiences, and would like to repeat when opportunity arises.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2010): I would not only allow but encourage it.My wife is beautiful and I am very proud of her. I think it would be wonderful for her to go topless in public.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010): This is a big topic of discussion between me and my BF at the moment, I want to get an even nice tan and dont think of my breasts as a sexual thing when i'm on a beach or wherever trying to get some sun. He sees it as me exposing my sexual bits (that should only be for him to see)and thereby in a way being unfaithfull to him. I feel controlled and told what to do and he feels that I am not taking his feelings into consideration and that you have to compromise in a relationship. (let it be noted this is not the first time I am asked to compromise myself or my behaviour on behalf of his "feelings"). I get compromise when it comes to where to live, or what color to paint the wall, about time and space, I just dont get how my body all of a sudden dont belong to myself and I cant do what I want with it for being afraid to hurt someones feelings. We're basically about to break up over this subject and I honestly dont know what is wrong or what is right anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2010): I would love for my wife to sunbathe topless. The idea of her bare breasts exposed to other men is a huge turn on.
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reader, lisbon  +, writes (15 August 2009):
i love when mt 30yo gf goes topless on the beach.last year was the first time she went topless as she says shes too big,she is a 34e andin fairness they are quiet big.she got a lot of attention that day she was a big turn on for both of us that day.
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reader, crispy1 +, writes (10 July 2009):
I love to sunbathe topless and have done many times.The first time was in the south of France. Shortly after arriving at the apartment my hubby went off to the bar to get a couple of drinks. When he returned I had just had a quick shower to cool down and just got my thong on much to my surprise he said don't bother putting your bikini top on as most of the women at the pool were topless. I wondered why he had been so long We had not discussed me going topless on the journey down but I was more than happy when he suggested it. We both found it a very big turn on and still do
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reader, britbloke +, writes (12 March 2009):
My wife has sunbathed topless for years, usually on holiday in Europe but on UK beaches and in the garden as well.I felt a little nervous when she started but when there are other topless women on the beach it is no big deal. She looks good topless and I love her tan with no white bits on the boobs!She used to ask if I "minded" but it is always her decision. She enjoys the feeling of sun on her chest and the freedom from fiddling with straps to try and even out her tan.If in doubt, go for it! Other men will look but they would if she was wearing a top!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm sorry if i offended people i just worded it bad. Let should f been mind!Let=Mind if!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): "I have sunbathed topless many many times in the past, however, now that I am 24 and more concerned about aging skin, I avoid the sun like the plague. I would rather be pale with soft young skin than look like a leather handbag by the time I'm 30!"You realise that you NEED at least a small amount of exposure to the sun or else you'll end up resembling a zombie.So long as you take the right pre-cautions and try to avoid too much exposure during the hotter periods of the day, like from lunch until mid-afternoon and re-apply your sunscreen every few hours or so... I see no reason why you can't enjoy a day at the beach with your tits out.Lord knows, an attractive woman with her breasts out for all to see can only enhance an already nice view of the ocean.Flynn 24
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 February 2009):
Personally I wouldn't do it anyway, but lets assume for the sake of this question that I love getting sunburned boobies. You can get arrested for public indecency if you do it in the UK so I'll also assume I'm on holiday and on a beach.
My husband does not "let" me do anything. I don't ask his permission. I am a British woman in 2009 and I will do what I damn well please as long as it's not hurting any one.
If he did REALLY not like it then I would take his feelings into account and perhaps only do it in secluded places, amongst other women, etc.
It's not a matter of permission. It's a matter of him telling me calmly when he doesn't like something and I will respect that and we will reach a compromise.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI see your point but thats like saying your not allowed to tell your partner they cant have sex with anyone of they wanted to lol! Even though that is much worse of course, just saying you can tell your partner what they can and cannot do depending on the extemity of it!
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (8 February 2009):
i personally wouldn't do it, just not my thing. but the reason i am replying to this, is because it's not up to the guy to tell his girl what she can and can't do. if a girl wants to sunbathe topless then she should. no1 should ever tell her to do anything. anyway it would be so hypercritical of a guy to tell his girl to cover up, even though if he saw another woman topless he would be staring at her. it's up to the girl. not the guy!
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