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writes:I have been seeing this guy who I know I am in love with, but he keeps telling me he doesn't want a relationship, but said he loved me too and really misled me. He is also seeing another girl as well which is killing me inside. He was honest and told me from the start she was around and she feels the same way I do about him. When I told him eventually how I felt, he said he only loved me as a friend, so I said he couldn't have his cake and eat it so I told him to forget we ever met. Now 3 weeks later he calls me out of the blue telling me he loves me as a friend but still wants to see both me and this girl. Is there any way I can make him see I would be a good girlfriend for him? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (8 February 2009):
his name isn't Liam is it.lol. if so dump his sorry ass!
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (8 February 2009):
omg it is like a memory flash back for me!
i started seeing this guy a few years ago, things were great, he even told me he was falling for me,blah blah, but then he creeped himself out and said we r just having fun right. so i got really confused thinking what is this, a relationship or fun. then he asked me if i was seeing anyone else or planning to, so i said no. as i thought we were in a relationship. then he siad to me " oh i'm planning to go on a date this week" at first i thought he was joking, but he wasn't. i had never felt so hurt! i could not believe it. he even asked me if it was ok with me, i told him what i thought and where to go and ended things then and there.
i just could not believe it! why do men do that to us! i understand how u feel and believe me it's much better without these assholes who think they can have as many girls as they want! leave him to it and find yourself a really caring, sweet guy who only wants to be with you. it's not worth the heartache.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (7 February 2009):
 he wants to date both of you because that makes him feel free and like you said he wants to have his cake and eat it too. there is nothing you can do, say or be, if he is not ready for a commitment you can't force him. you can either decide to play his litle game and answer his boody calls(cause thats what they are hun)or you can tell him friendly that its detrimental for you to be in this type of relationship and you want and need something more stable. don't ask him for anything just state how you feel.
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