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writes:ive have cheated on my girlfriend that ive been with for over 2 years ..with her brothers girl that he has been talking to and i have been crying and crying and i told her what i have done and all i can do is cry i really do love her and she was my first for everything and same for her and i didnt eat or drink for a whole day i just been crying telling her how deeply sorry i truly feel and that i would do anything to gain her trust back and she still always wants to see me and just be around me but she has been just thinking of what ive done and she doesnt know what she should do..she really loves me and i truly do even tho i made that mistake and the worst mistake i could ever do and i told her ill always be here for her i ended up buying her a rose and stuff and i cant stress it enough to her how deeply sorry i am and her question was why i did and i feel like i got nothing to say to that i felt deeply guilty before doing this but i dont know why i still went through with like i was fighting with myself like one side of me was saying no no and the other saying yes and i went through with it and felt guilty as ever she doesnt want to tell her family or her brother what happend and i dont know whats going to happen and i just really want to show her that ill do anything and everything to make it up to her...but she says one who cheats doesnt love and it hurts me so much cause i tell that i really do i love her so much id do anything and i deeply learned from this..i just dont know what to do :(
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reader, Miss Potter  +, writes (8 February 2009):
 To put it frankly - if you REALLY loved her you wouldn't have cheated on her. Do the right thing - let her go and find her happiness with someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): Let her go, man.Let her find someone who won't cheat on her.She's right, people in love don't cheat. If you loved her you wouldn't make her feel that kind of pain. You might have yourself convinced you love her, but chances are you just think you love her, and don't actually.And if you actually do still love her, let her go find happiness elsewhere.She'll never be able to forget this, that trust won't ever fully come back.If you ask me, it's pretty much done.
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