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*luvme0723
writes:I was hanging with a friend, who likes me. The feeling isn't mutual. He got mad when I told him we would never be together. And he starting putting me down, stating I was damaged goods. Am I damaged goods because I was in a relationship and ended up getting hurt? I don't really understand what he meant by that. Anyone have an idea? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (7 February 2009):
You rejected him. That hurt him.
So he (like the nice guy he is) decided to lash out and try and hurt you back with what ever words he could think of.
You are not damaged goods.
Keep your distance for a while so he can have a chance to start moving on. If he wants to stay friends then he will get back in touch when he is ready and apologise.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, uluvme0723 +, writes (7 February 2009):
uluvme0723 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Lol. Your absolutely right. Thanx.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (7 February 2009):
 Ah the dreaded rejection...Young Lady he was talking out his ass because he had his ego bruised. He obviously had feelings for you and you just arent interested, simple as that. The guy, if he is a real friend, will come around and you can talk about it perhaps, but he was trying to make you feel guilty for rejecting him.
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