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writes:i had casual relationship with my co-worker who is married with two kids. he was a straight man, but i have managed to fell him down in my snare as I did not stop till i get him. i initiated everything even the first sex we had, i was the one who went to his flat. we are oftenly making sex after what happened but no relationship. he was been very nice to me. we are always together, texting and calling each other. until one day the rumours spread out to his wife and we dont have choice but to get separated. i was afraid to lose him so i told lies to him by saying i am pregnant. first he was shocked, but believe after a couple of days he has showed me more interest and concern. he even told me that he loves me too but he has to leave for his wife and kids. he gave me promises before he left me, but now it seems everything turned differently as he stopped communicating with me very often, although he still asking abt my pregnancy and even told that he will not stop supporting our baby. im a big liar and i have told him many lies, i hope he can forgive me if he will come to know all this s__t i gave him. i even told him many times that i will end life. pls tell me how to get out from this as im badly missing him. he loves his family..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for the reply. how can i start telling him that i only lied to him. he was infront of me crying before he left me and even said that he loves me and our baby too, but he also have family and cannot do anything. im already jailed on this lies and cant come out. how many times i scare him that I will end up my life and how many times he cried and run like a nuts to my nuts and begging not to do that. im so depressed and i need your help as i want to clean this mess. even the name for baby was already planned by him.
many thanks for the reply.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): What are you doing there? Obviously your attempts will serve to drive him away from you.
I have to be frank with you, women like you scares the hell out of men.
You need to have a complete 180 change. I agree with Gina. Be good to yourself and get yourself out of this mess A.S.A.P!
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