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What kind of things could I say to help to turn him on during sex???

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Question - (7 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi

I've recently started getting a lot closer to my boyfriend. He's started asking me to give him blow jobs however i've never done one before and i don't have a clue what to do. Are you able to give me any tips on what to do and what feels good???

We've also had sex a few times and he says he wants me to start talking to him whilst we're having it. What kind of things could i say to help to turn him on???

Thanks for any advice xxx

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A male reader, nash United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2009):

well that's the blow job done, as for the talking, it's pretty simple. although this sounds like just sensual rubbish simple things like "I love you" spoken in a hushed tone whilst gazing into his eyes, or stuff like "(name) I think it's time" whilst stroking the chest with finger tips or just gently tweaking the nipples(does work for nearly all men even those who say it dosent).

however some men may like the dirty talk either being ordered to do things with abusive/offensive terms or even things like "come on you cuddly toy, show me the real animal" can liven things up.

it depends on which he prefers, the sensual things can have a much more powerful effect and lead to better pleasure on both sides.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (7 February 2009):

DoubleM agony auntProviding you keep your teeth off the shaft, most anything you do with your lips, tongue and mouth between the legs will feel good. Begin by licking from base to tip repeatedly, then kissing and swirling the tip before taking it into the mouth. From then on, the basics are "in and out" while also stroking the shaft with one or both hands. If this does not cause ejaculation within a few minutes, repeat the process from the beginning. He should tell you when he nears climax so that you may choose what to do.

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