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writes:Here is the thing me and my girlfriend broke up after only like 1 month. The bitch never really respected me and I am over her I mean I do not think about her much during the day and I do not really miss her. But when I sleep I can not get her out of my dreams. It has been way to long it was 3-4 weeks ago. I really feel like I am over her but I keep dreaming about her ever single night. WHY IS THIS?!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt is still happening every single night. I don't know how to stop this. I keep dreaming of something she never was.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't think I was ever in love with her. This girl was bad news, she really only cared about herself and did not even care about her baby (Pregnant before we got together) she would blame all her own problems on me. I wanted to break up with her but I though If I treat her right shed change but that did not happen she ended up breaking up with me through a text message and posted a myspace bulletin laughing about it. I had lost all respect for her after that. She ended up going back to her piece of the idiot ex who cheated on her and hit her all the time and ditched her when he found out about the baby. I really feel I am over her and that I am better off. But I still see her in dreams of her being this terrific girl. I do not really think about her much otherwise. But every damn night she is there in my sleep. Why? (Sorry if its double post)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't think I was in love with her in my opinion. I mean this girl was trouble she really seems to only care about herself. She could not even respect her baby (Not my kid it was before we met) When she was pregnant she did acid and ecstacy and weed and drank hard alcohol. She blamed a lot of her own problems on me. While she was with me she would still talk to her ex even though the guy was a piece of shit who cheated on her and hit her and left her when he found out about the baby. She went back to this guy. I should have broken up with her earlier but I thought maybe shell change if I treat her right. But that did not happen she ended up dumping me through text message and then posted a bulletin laughing about it. I really lost respect for her after that and realized I am better off. Yet I still having all these dreams of her being a great girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't want to be like that though its been to long for me to come and say something now. Isn't it? I really want to get her out of my dreams. I really don't know what it is I need to tell her. But I feel like these dreams will not stop.
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reader, uluvme0723 +, writes (7 February 2009):
 Maybe there's something you need to say to her. That's the only thing I can think of. You say your over her. Try to figure out if there's anything you feel she needs to know. Good luck.
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