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30-35,
*nique-angel
writes:this person that i am starting to see ( month and a half) would tell me subtle things such as i am here for you...i would do anything for you and would love it when i would say i miss him.but as soon as i say i feel that we're growing closer how do you feel... no reply!why is it so hard to talk about emotions to a guy??just small things like that Reply to this Question
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (7 February 2009):
just be patient with him. remember men are not as expressive as us girls. especially in their 20's and late teens. just give him time, he will agree with you when he is ready. it took my ex about 3 months before he said "i am falling for you" then after that he realised he had opened up and tried to go all matcho again and bottle it all up. men are men, you can't change them. you just have to learn how to read them a little. he may not be vocal, but he may do little things that say alot. little gestures.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): At your age, most guys are just guys, they make terrible boyfriends because they are emotionally immature. Don't press him for feelings or talking about them, men show their feelings mostly in what they do, not what they say.
If he is spending a lot of time with you, then he likes and cares for you, but that is about it so far.....he will tell you himself what he feels if and when he is ever ready to do so.....
Guys are just desserts, the icing on the cake of life, but you go out and live yours and keep it interesting and you won't worry so much on what he is feeling, because you are out there making your own happiness and he will feel the space in your relationship to be himself more.
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