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*uukiBear
writes:Ok. Today I lost my best friend (I think) We have been together for almost 10 years now and lately things have been going down hill. See... She is engaged to this guy we call Kyo... He is bi and so she lets him be with other guys... Well... My boyfriend is bi. I call him Kaname. I hate sharing him and I told him last night. Well. On wednesday I found out that Kaname proposed to Kyo and I tripped. I had my Dadda pick me up from school and I came home, ran to my room, thrashed it, tore out every note from my boyfriend and threw them to the floor. I cried like all hell and then I just felt numb. Like I didn't feel ANYTHING at all. Not even emotions. I just wasn't there. I knew that something like this would happen. I just had to walk right inot it didnt I. Well, I messaged my boyfriend (Who is in Japan right now) and told him I fell in love with him and that I am sick of sharing him and that I am done. I told him to get married to the guy. That I wasn;t going to stop him but I had just needed to tell him how I felt about it. Well, This morning he texted me saying that he would never leave me and that he was calling off the engagement. All for me! And in the afternoon I got a note from a friend that had a convo she and everyone was in during 2nd period. My Best friends fiancees sister said "What the **ck did you do to Kaname you stupid bitch?!?!" I found out that Kaname was crying all last night and theat he freaked out. Well. The sister told my best friend not to talk to me cause of it. My best friend is already mad at me cause I was the reason the engagement was broken off between my boyfriend and her fiancee. What the hell! She should be happy but NOOOO! She has to be pissed off at me and diss me. Well, I told her that I was done with her shit. That I was insulted by the fact that she would risk our friendship because her supposed 'loves' sister. The guy doesnt even love her enough to just be with her! What the hell man! Ugh... Well... My boyfriend has chosen me, But now I have lost my best friend. My life. My sister. And soon because of that I will loose my boyfriend. I have fallen in love with him and I dont know if I can survive without him. I fear that if he leaves I will kill myself. I just dont know what to do. Help! Please!
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reader, YuukiBear +, writes (21 February 2009):
YuukiBear is verified as being by the original poster of the question The situation is figured out. Thankyou for the help!
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reader, YuukiBear +, writes (9 February 2009):
YuukiBear is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah she probably did. But honestly I don't care. My boyfriend chose me. That is all I care about. It just sucks that I had to break off my 10 year friendship with her that's all.
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (9 February 2009):
 yeah she should be happy...i just dont understand any of this..
your friend probably liked the idea of her boyfriend going out with yours...
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reader, YuukiBear +, writes (8 February 2009):
YuukiBear is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell yeah he is bi... and they were together... but he left the guy for me... and now my best friend (now X friend) hates me cause her boyfriend got broken up with by my boyfriend... My boyfriend loves me... He chose me... why would she be mad? shouldn't she be happy that her fiancee isnt with someone else???
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (7 February 2009):
woooww.. you got yourself in some deep drama!!!
how did his happen???!!
okay so the thing is your boy friend is bi
and your friends boyfriend is bi, and your boyfriend and your friends boyfriend our both together---thats mest up
i just think you should get out of the whole situation because i think trhis to much stress for beying sooo young
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