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writes:ok im madly in lovge with my boyfriend we have so much in common and so much planned out for our future i kno that he is in love with me as well and well this year ive had alot of diffulculties and i still am any ways like 3 weeks ago i cheated on him and im afraid that he is going to find out my whole school knows about it ( we go to different high schools) but the problem is is that his cousin goes to my school and we are really good friends and i kno that he knos and im really afraid that he will tell him should i tell him first? and does any body have any suggestions on how i can ease this on him i really want to stay with him
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reader, Chantenique  +, writes (7 February 2009):
 yeah tell him you probally don't know how much it hurts a person when you cheat on him/her ha?? I don't know what is sp pleasing to do it.. why didn/t you just leave him?? I think tell him and then let him decide what he wants to do, and if he gives you a second chance you must try really hard to let him trust you again..
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reader, lovelynightmare +, writes (7 February 2009):
 Do tell him first. If he needs outside sources to know that you're cheating, his trust will lessen even more.Be honest and do not cheat again. It will probably take a while for him to forgive/trust you, but if your relationship is worth it, do save it.lovelynightmare
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