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How do I give her the space she needs now if she talks to me every day?

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Question - (7 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *ilveknifex writes:

She wants space and idk what to do about it help me ( Long 10 point answer).?

So basically theres this girl i like very much , even love and right now she says she likes me but doesnt like me like that because right now she cant like anyone like that, so the best thing for me to be is her friend, she said she appreciates me and i mean a lot to her, and having me means the world to her

but shes very confusing at times, last week she was with me and kissed me out of nowhere, were not going out, and then the next day she seemed aggravated because she said she felt attached to me, last night i called her and we had a great conversation for 2 hours, so she has her ups and down, ( not to mention menstrual cycle right now) but by her saying the attached thing i dont want to overwhelm her, she talks to me every morning and texts me good morning

but like tonight i dont know if i should just leave her to herself or ask to her to go work out today or invite her to a movie because right now she needs space, shes still getting over her ex, it seems and the past couple nights he finally called her and made her cry her eyes, after she finally realized he doesnt like her anymore, but i cant tell her that becuase i want her to make her own decisions, but right now im stuck in the situation on how i give a girl space, a girl that talks to me everyday and enjoys talking to me, she even called off valentines day for us, but i don't know im sort of in a pickle

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (16 February 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntyou need to set ground rules here coz she sounds like she's messing you around. sit down and talk to her about what you want and about what to do if you cant get that. she needs to know that certain things arent acceptable unless she is willing to have a relationship. ultimatley i would leave her alone, she's messed up,.xx

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