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anonymous
writes:I've been going out with a guy for a couple of months now and everything has been going awesome. He knows I hate Valentine's Day and that I really don't like doing anything for it but he told me the other night that he wants to get me something. I was kind of put on the spot and said okay but now I'm thinking that I have to get him something...what the heck to I get him?! Neither of us are romantic and it suits us both down to the ground. Should I get him a card? And what would I write in it? I know that I'm going to feel mortified!Help would really be appreciated... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): Being sweet and nice for candle-light dinner works all the time. Surprise him and you'll surprise yourself even more by how much you enjoy doing it. Here are a few suggestions to rev up your romance gene:1) Massage him gently after his bath. You can learn more by checking out youtube or google on how to massage. All you need is massaging oil. There are plenty of different types of oils. Durex even has an oil which can be used for massaging and for lubrication. Perhaps after a good massage, both of you can resume with a nookie.2) You can buy cards that already have messages in it. All you have to write is 'To.....' and 'Love,.....' Simple but at the same time impersonal to be frank. Sometimes just writing simple words that truly describes your feeling will just suffice. You don't need to rake your brain for catchy words. For example, 'I truly appreciate you for who you are and thank you for being there all the time.'3) Just drive to somewhere secluded and watch stars together. This spot can be a secret special spot for the two of you.4) Just proceed as normal as you would and give him a big hug and kiss and say 'Happy Valentine's Day and I love you'.
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