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writes:Hello, I don't know what I should do. I am house sharing (my house) with a much younger male friend, who I have fallen in love with. I have told him, and he says he loves me as a friend but that's all. In some ways I can be content to live like this but I am worried how I will cope if he gets a girlfriend. He says he doesn't want marriage etc, just casual relationships.Should I make the most of the relationship we do have, or ask him to move out and try to get over him. My fear of doing that is that I will end up even lonelier than I am now. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 February 2009):
Friends with benefits ONLY works when you are just friends. If you are in love with him then you will get torn apart by this.
You need to ask him to move out.
I know the fear of being alone can be a big one but you will be fine and if you get out there you will find someone to love you back. There are lots of men who would LOVE a woman like you.
Keep telling yourself that you are a sexy older woman who is great in bed and would be an amazing catch for any man. You do not need to settle for this guy. You can do better than this relationship.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Bobbyjo +, writes (7 February 2009):
 are u sleeping with him? If he is engaging in sexual relationship with you then he taking advantage of you and this should stop. If you and him have not even as much as kissed, then Im afraid this is only your problem as he has done nothing wrong.
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