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writes: My husband can get erections and can ejaculate, but we never had sex. He'd never touch me and I'd always initiate, he would get an erection but no intercourse, he'd ejaculate by other means. He is 42 and I am his first. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): This is really embarrassing... Have I had any experience in sex this would had never happened. The thing is he is my first too. This marriage has really gone further and I have no way out of this, we love each other but nothing's happening. I mean, my health is... I am now going through a menapause (it took me some time to figure out that it is menapuase) and it's on it last stage. So I am panicking and he doesn't care. I talk to him about this many times but he thinks the true love isn't about sex. I agree but... He thinks that we never wanted sex or tried... This is driving me mad, as if it is all my fault. I am really attractive girl and any men would have taken me by now, and with all these desires and symptoms I feel like I am not a girl and nor a woman. I have no courage to talk to my doctor about this mess. My case is so unique that no one would believe. Thank you for your advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): WOW! How long have you been married? Do you think he could be gay? You must open the lines of communication before this goes any further. Talk to him, ask plenty of questions! We really need more info if we are going to give you more advice!
There is obviously something toubling him. You have to get to the bottom of it!
Please keep us posted!
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (7 February 2009):
 I think there could be something deeply troubling your husband. Have you ever asked him about this slightly peculiar behavior towards u, aka his WIFE!? You need to pretty much tell him that his 'actions' are confusing not only u but the rest of society and he needs to get a grip on his virginity because let's face it. He's 42, and married...and he hasn't has sex. He would just rather do it himself than face losing that 'precious gift'. There is something terribly wrong with this entire picture and YOU NEED TO GET HELP FOR HIM! Why not try couples councling? It is worth every penny in this case.
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