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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello all, I really need some help. I broke up with my ex 9 months ago as we had a very complicated relationship, I have tried extremely hard to get over him and I thought I was completly over him until today because I have just spoken to him for the 1st time in three months and its made me realize how much I miss him. I am determined not to go back to him which is easy to do now as he lives out of the country but I'm afraid that when he comes back, I won't be able to resist. I feel so silly but im starting to think I will never get over him. I have dated other men and enjoy myself mostly but at the end of the day, deep down I wish I was still with him. How long will I feel like this?!?!?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): how your feeling is normal. youve gone all this time with out him and have survived and learnt to enjoy life so you know you can do this again, its just getting there thats the hardest part. you have got over him, your feelings will always be there, like it is with everyone you have a relationship with, they never go away but over time they change and can fade from what they once were. when a person leaves your life and comes back it changes you and messes up your routine, the whole way you have carried on is alterted and it seems to be falling out of your control. dont let this happen, its not fair on you. you say you had a complicated relationship, remind yourself of that when you catch yourself falling again, you dont want to go back there, to somewhere you never really knew where you stood. you need to start living and enjoying your life as you have been doing. dont let him wreck the person you can be and have started to enjoy becoming. be you, forget him and love every minute of the new person you are.best of luck love shiraz xxx
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