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writes:I have been going out with my bf for three months now. he broke up with me once because he was "confused" in his life, but we are back together.My question is, does your bf/gf text or meet with you everyday or at least three times a week or so? My bf barely texts or meets with me unless I ask him first.Like today, we were suposed to hang out, but he still didn't call me yet whether he's busy or whatever reason that he couldn't hang out with me today.Am I being too clingy? or is there something wrong with our relationship?I hate breaking up with someone right before Valentine's Day, but if I must do so, then I am seriously considering it.
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reader, rcn +, writes (8 February 2009):
 When I first read this, I'd have to imagine who is his other valentine? I'd be really wondering what might be going on you don't know about because 1. his being confused 2. lack of communication.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): not being clingy at all! my bf texts everyday heaps and we meet up heapshe sounds like a sad sad guy who dusnt deserve youyoull probably enjoy valentines day more without him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009): You are not clingy. But, you are doing all the work here and you really need to stop doing that. When a guy dates a girl, he wants contact with her all the time. He wants her to know he's thinking of her and he shows his interest by calling her, texting her, messaging her, daily...at the very least, every other day. He's not doing that and this relationship is only 3 months old. I think it's time to call this a day, irregardless of whether it's just before Valentine's Day or not. So yes...there is something very wrong in this relationship. Your bf either doesn't know how to treat a gf properly or he just doesn't want to. I am guessing it's 'he's just doesn't want to put in the efforts' especially in light of the fact, that you both broke up already once, due to his confusion as he puts it. I think that may have been a nice way of saying 'he's just not into this relationship. If you don't believe me, try not contacting him for about 2 weeks. Chances are you may never hear from him. Just realize that you will be saving yourself time, worry and angst by cutting him loose...today. Good luck and never date someone who won't work at it, as hard as you do. There's an amazing guy out there, that wants to be with you, but this one isn't it. Go find that other guy and have a blast!
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