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writes:My best mate fancies the pants off this boy she told him that she likes him but he said that he likes me my mate said that i cannot go out with him or she will talk to me ever again.i want to go out with him but i don't want to lose my friend what do i do?? plzzzzzzz help me!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 February 2009):
Don't go out with him!
It would be hurtful and nasty to rub your best mate's feelings into the mud like that.
I very much doubt he would be worth hurting your friend for.
Tell him no and go out for a big day of shopping with her to hang out and get the trust back.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (8 February 2009):
i will tell you one thing that will sum up your whole problem..
your friends and family should always come first, they will always be there when boys aren't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): Try not to be too self- absorbed here and think about what if is like to be your friend. How about suddenly, he loses interest with you and want to date your friend instead? You would just probably do the very same thing. Talk to her about it and perhaps the two of you may reach a compromise. Take your time to know the guy as a friend. This will help you to determine what he's really like and whether he's worth losing your friend for. Be careful with what you wish for.
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