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How do I make him realize what I feel for him?

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Question - (7 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi

a couple of days ago,i told the guy i am in love with that i love him(u guys might remember that question..).he is 11 years older to me,but ilove him.

we are family friends,and so he considers my mom like his mom,and all that.so he told my mom,that he cannot possible think he is good enough for me.me who is such a kind,simple,holy soul and he is such a bad man.

plus the age difference..

but he says he wont let go of our friendship

and he also says he will talk it over with his folks,and that if he even says no,he will do it in such a way that i am convinced to say no to him,and not the other way round.

if that were not enough,he is sorta ignoring me too..perhaps that was my conception,but he was there yesterday on facebook,and i sent him a msg,i tried talking to him on chat as well,when he didnt reply.

but he didnt reply .

so please help me..cuz i have no idea at all..never being in a love so strong as i feel fort his man.i wantto spend my life with him.its been 3 years since i have known him and we are really close..i dont know what to do

and he is a decent and sweet guy..i have found someone who is just like my father,and i dont want to ruin this..how do i make him realize?

thx for reading

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009):

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hi .thx for answering!

i guess,time is all i have to give him.

and i will be 18 this march,that is not an issue.we dont have any sexual relations,its all emotional..and i can wait.:)

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A female reader, kitty_3 United States +, writes (7 February 2009):

kitty_3 agony auntawww! if you send me a messege with more details i'd be happy to (try to) help!

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A male reader, jay12toes United States +, writes (7 February 2009):

jay12toes agony aunthe has to figure things out for himself, its probably hard for him to talk to you because he still dousnt know what to do. just give it time, just like a week, so he can figure some stuff out.

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