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writes: ok I have a huge problem. I'm still in love with my ex and he says he's still in love with me too but we are both in different relationships. My boyfriend is amazing but I miss my ex so much and I don't know how to get over him. Would it be easier if I just stop talking to him or should I continue to keep him in my life and just try to get over him? We were together for a year and a half that was my longest relationship and I got so attached to him. How do I get over him? We promised to always stay close and be in each others life but it's hard to see him with a girl who use to be his best friend. Please help me.
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reader, VampyricHybrid +, writes (8 February 2009):
I had that problem for awhile. I still care about my ex-boyfriend, honestly but I don't love him. My current boyfriend told me something that helped me. He told me that we had broken up for a reason. And, I know that's not what you want to here. But, it's helped me get through the heartbreak. Sometimes we cannot always have what we want, it's the sad truth. And, if you were meant to be it will happen, don't force it. Just let it happen. -I'm sorry and good luck. =)
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (7 February 2009):
Split up with your partners and get back together. It is not fair on your partners to be stuck in the middle here.
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