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Is it advisable to have sex with her?

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Question - (7 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2009)
A male Nigeria age 51-59, anonymous writes:

i am a married man looking unto the for children, and this neighbor a married woman, i will say we seem to love each other naturally, because she confides in me on advice once a while thereby giving me advice on how my wife and i will bear children, but all of a sudden we see ourselves dating and today we are going out, is it advisable to have sex with her? 1. she has been of assistance to me care feeding whenever my wife travels. 2. she has been advising me on specific issues too when i fill lonely.

please i need your urgent advise

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009):

Apart from everything Gina has said, which I agree with, do you not think you might need this woman's agreement?

She probably sees herself as the 'good neighbour' by helping out her friend when she's away, this doesn't mean she wants to have sex with you! If you approached her in this way you would run the risk of her running a mile, never speaking to you again and telling your wife all about what you said to her.

If you'd like a divorce this would be a good way of achieving one.

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