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writes:okay . its really hard for me . im only 16 and im feeling the bad part of love already.. i had a boyfriend who was my life we lasted 2 years and three months... and he told me that he needs time .... i dont kno wwhat to think .. is it that he dosent love no more .. ??? for real people i feel really bad .. i know im young and life goes on but i dont know im just scared of life...!i will apreciate every word each and one of you wil say .
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): Young people don't know how to make up their minds, and don't really know what they want either. He is not ready for a serious relationship. There's nothing wrong with you.
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reader, shiraz 22  +, writes (7 February 2009):
its always hard when thats thrown at you, its out of your control and its the one thing hurting you more than anything. advice will be to move on, i know its hard but its the only way forward, you cant remain in the past. i know the world is scarey, to everyone in it! just some are better at covering it than others. dont be afraid of who you are, were each indivudual and we handle things differently, it wouldnt work if we were all the same. be greatful for the things you do have, life will get better this is just a bad patch that seems a forever place.you fell deep, so after all that time its only natural for you to be upset still but you need to have that strength to pick yourself up and get your life back on track. if you stay in the same situation you wont find much of a future, this will just drag on and i know thats not something you want, so take control and stop it now. make a life for yourself. be happy in yourself.the past will hurt and you might not ever really get over him but his message is clear to me, give him his space and you go find yours, go live your life your way.hope all works out xxx
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reader, Miss..Cupid +, writes (7 February 2009):
Dear "I dont know what to think",If you are worried about it, all i can say is talk to him, if he doesnt love you anymore he should tell you but dont worry he might just have a lot of stuff on his mind. Ofcourse you will feel bad, if you have been in a relationship for over 2 years then you are obviously very close. Speak to him and find out what is wrong. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): I know how it feels hun..A lot of my friends have ben through this..and If i were asked y he said this, its probably because he has lost interest in you. Most guys do not realize what they have lost until it just goes away.first thing you shoudl do is just not say anything and just leave. If this will startle him and make him feel bad, he will come back. If he doesnt, it was never meant to be.I cant tell if he doesnt love you or not. But i know one thing that even if he loves you, this is not the right way to treat the girlfriend you have been with for 2-3 years.. For a few days, dont contact him until he does and just try to engage urselves in other things..watch movies, go out with friends or help ppl out on this website.. do anything to keep you occupied..a guy that makes you sad or cry isnt worth it. and its good that youre learning some lessons earlier in life so that you wouldnt have to suffer more later on..right ?i hope this helps..if you need to talk or anything, msg me and we can talk on msn too..-Nido
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