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Why is my ex flirting with me when he dumped me?

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Question - (7 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *alyov writes:

So when I first got there we stared at each other for a bit then I looked away and went to sit down. He didn't talk to me. I found out he told Brian he wasn't going to.

Well Brians mom sent us to the store to get food….me, chris, carrie, and brian.

While in the car and at the store he showed off for me, and started to talk and flirt. I gave him the $30 from his book he put on my ebay account, and he really appreciated it.

Then we got home and he was in the room and brian hand me go in there to play video games so I did, and when I got in there chris decided to leave and go into the other room...avoiding me.

Then while eating we all sat around the table, I sat beside Brad and he sat on his other side.

Well during dinner I kept talking to Brad and every time I tried he'd either try getting my attention or Brads, so that we'd talk to him.

Then I started watching tv and I heard him talking, I thought he was talking to Brad. Well after 5min I look over and hes watching me, he had been speaking to me and I didn't know it.

Then he started to ignore me again.

Then later on I was standing in the doorway, with room enough for 3 people to pass me and he walked past brushing all against me.

Then I went and talked to Brad...or well Brad called me over to view his video game stats. And Chris walked up and had me look at his instead.

Then I went back and talked to Brad and chris came in and wiggled between us…there was enough room there was no need for him to brush against me again.

Then he ignored me again.

Then later on I was talking about Iron man and he asked me questions and then while talking to me he decided to leave so told everyone but me bye and left

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why is he flirting with me if he dumped me? and Why did he try to prevent Brad and I from talking?

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A female reader, Kalyov United States +, writes (8 February 2009):

Kalyov is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Kalyov agony auntWell I do miss him

and If he said sorry I might give him another try

but I dont see that happening

so I have to move on

I just dont see why he wants to play these games with my head =/

I wish he wouldnt

It confuses/upsets me

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2009):

He's jealous. In his mind it's working like this:

He broke up with you... you should be crying in your room because he was SO AMAZING and now it is over.

You are not supposed to be having fun and talking to other BOYS. How could you do that to him??????

Yeah, so he is being a jerk and trying to mess with your head.

Stop hanging around him until he gets over it. You both need space to get over the relationship.

Good Luck!! xx

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