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writes: HelloRight, i am 16,, female and i am with a 20 year old. We are ready for sex but i keep putting it off because of my down below.. i have been shaving it off for so long, and i dont know weather or not he will like it, and i want it to be perfect, and shaving always leaves stubble. I really dont know what to do about it. At the moment i have stubble, i dont want to get it waxed because my eyebrows hurt enough! haha, help me! :) And even if you do say shave it off, do i shave it all leave some, i dont know,.Please please please help! before its too late and make a fool out of myself. Thanks ! :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): The previous poster seems not to realise that the OP live in the U.K. and the legal age of consent in 16 there, as it is in almost ANY Western Society bar the Americas (whcih was FOUNDED by prudes).
There isn't ANYTHING wrong with her current relationship. At 16 you can legally move out of home. You can have sex. You can start your life basically. All that you are unable to do is drink alcohol in public places. But you still can in private residences.
As to the question... I don't think your bf will be bothered one way or the other. The bald-thing is quite popular these days, but a lot still find it distasteful and a little TOO close to paedophilia.
I suggest keeping it neat and clean. but leaving a little hair... like a landing strip or something to prove that you have hit puberty. I'm not talking 70's bush here (though you didn't hear any 70's men complaining), just something to say you are not a little kid.
As long as its neat and clean you will NEVER hear a complaint from a guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): Put it off for a few years more... with a man closer your age. Maybe the decision will be made for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): Leave it Bushy for a change. It is sexy, and I think he will like it.
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reader, miss lilian +, writes (28 December 2009):
I would say leave a little, having none makes it look like a childs.
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reader, SnowStorm51 +, writes (28 December 2009):
I don't think he'll care too much. He will probably be more focused on the activity you are about to do.
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