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male
age
30-35,
*harthar
writes:I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend once 'cuz I ran out of condone that day, but I took it out when I came. I was in a worry since after that time. Now, my girlfriend said that she hasn't have her period yet, and it is already time for her period. To be precise, today is a due date for her period but she hasn't have it yet. It is not too late yet, but I am so worry to death now. Because, I am not ready to have a kid yet, even though I am already 20. I don't know what to do, but to pray to God not to give me an unfortunate child in my life now since I am not ready yet. I am just wishing and worrying right now. Please give me advise what to do if, only if, my girlfriend get pregnant (which I really hope not!) Sorry if I am sounded a lil selfish for praying like this. I just don't want to have any complication in my life right now since I am still pursuing my college education for the better life. (Crossed fingers)!!! Please God help me! Ugh!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): You didn't use a condom, and NOW you're worried about a pregnancy????!!!! I'm sorry, but you're old enough to know better.
Good luck, and I really hope for both your sakes that she isn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): there is a name for guys who use the "pullout method"....theircalledDADS....If she is pregnant,, you are both responsible, both of you should know the routine. (It's been the same rules for several thousand years...) If by chance she is NOT pregnant.. remember the feelings you are having right now..... THen go down and buy a case of condoms if that's what it takes to NOT be in this position and having the feelings you're having right now.That aside.. take a deep breath for a moment, has your GF been super regular with her periods? Is she under alot of stress for any reason? (besides being pg) Is she getting enough sleep, food, etc.. If she has a history of "weird periods",, she could just be "off" on starting her period. Same with stress, etc.. it Can effect her periods. So, you and her may have "dodged the bullet" this time..Now go back and read this 6 more times....
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): Learn some self control. Next time, If you dont have a condom, just keep it in your pants. She needs to take a test but you have to wait for week or 2 after a missed period for that.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 December 2009):
She will have to take a test. And if she is pregnant, you have a duty to her and the child. But you need her to take a test so you can find out.
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