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writes:Alright, a little description about myself. I am just a regular 19 year old guy who is basically still studying in an university with practically no work at all. I am deeply in love with a girl, my university mate for only about 1 and a half month. I know it sounds pathetic but I kind of need some advice on this.A little description on the progress then. Knew her for 4 months, just a greeting friend and barely know her until a month and half ago. I really get to know her very well and started to fall for her, like really deeply. May be it is just another crush, I don't know but I have never felt so deep to a girl before in my life. We actually hang out like probably only twice per week due to her parents being overly strict to her. Well, whose parents won't?We hang out, just the two of us for only about 4 or 5 times but nothing special happened at all. The only one was a surprise for her during christmas, which really blows her mind but other than that, nothing much. I thought I had did so much, making it obvious enough, but it seems that she still doesn't know that I have feelings for her. I don't know she is acting or not but it really seems that she is not acting, simply means she really doesn't know.I don't know if it is wise to tell her that I do have feelings for her as I am scared that the fact that she will avoid me if I say it, but I know I have to say it sooner or later. I am just kind of waiting for the right time to say it. I know that I can still hang out with her just alone not long from now and it will continue but I just don't know why, it seems that even though we are close, we can't surpass the "only-friends" stage.To her, she did say before to me that she can't find a weakness in me. She can list out all the advantages of me but not a weakness. She have ever praised me really well and say that I am a sweet guy and such but no signs of showing any great interest. So, I really do need some advice.Do I continue to approach her the way I am doing now by just hanging out with her more often, chatting, understanding her more? Or am I doing it the wrong way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): Yeah, I guess she is really a shy person. Nah, I'll stick to this one and try my best to win her heart. Thanks a lot for the advice people. Any more comments and advices will be appreciated. Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@marieclaire : I think I will take your advice into consideration... I think I will find a good spot and try, but probably not so soon? Probably will do on some special ocassion like Valentines? I'll think deeply through it. Any suggestion on venues or time/date?
Cheers! Happy new year to you guys!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@marieclaire : But she has not even kissed a guy once in her whole life. Do you think it is a wise choice to do so? I mean, it is the first one.
@celiaaletta : I don't know, I don't find it convincing that she has even a little interest in me. That's because she barely takes the initiative to contact me in terms of phone calls and texts. It is always me being the one to initiate the conversation and not her. The only times that she initiate is probably I miss-called her and she is just replying my call. Any clue?
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