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*arren_Lee
writes:Right, the names Darren, 16 years old.I really need your help! Please!Well me and my former partner broke up a few months ago, over trust issues between one another after a year and a half of being a couple - and there was other people in the spaces in my attempt to move forward, people I didn't take to seriously. But then about a three weeks ago me and my former partner got back together trying to patch up our relationship and my partner confessed to cheating on me on three different occasions (twice over the internet talking dirty to other people - and once on holiday snogged another person) I was obviously crushed by this after asking my partner if they cheated and them keep repeatedly saying no, and we broke up due to my partner saying I couldn't trust her - even though my partner had been cheating.Now I don't know what to think, and she's gone very strange she keeps lying about weird things (such as: 'i am getting a new tv' and I ask her mum which one shes getting and her mum knows nothing about it - or 'your present was ordered off the internet and it won't come until after christmas' then I see her in town yesterday buying it!) I don't know what to do, do I confess and tell her I know shes lying, but I don't know why? Or exit the relationship? :/ But I didn't really want it to come to that.Thanks for reading.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): Mate you need to exit. My philosophy is you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find that prince (or princess in your case!) You are 16 and still have plenty of time to do it. Being married relatively young and now being divorced, my advice is dont waste your time with those not worthy of your attention.
Good luck!
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reader, xAx +, writes (28 December 2009):
 I think you should go and talk to her about her not being honest to you. Ask her what's wrong. Say that you appreciate her telling the truth and that you have your reasons for not trusting her and that she should understand.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 December 2009):
Exit. She could be a compulsive liar. Time to move on and find a girl who won't hurt you and lie to you like this. You now know you cannot trust her at all.
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