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writes:So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 11 months, nearly a year!And for a while now, he's been wanting me to strip for him, I've alway been rather... Shy of my body, and I know he loves me, yet through past experinces, I had an ex, who actually saw my body, and treated me horrible!Always saying the worst things, and cheating on me. And now, I just don't have it in me, to show my new boyfriend, because I'm afraid of a repeat.He's stayed with me, and supported me through the whole thing, always being there, but recently, he's gotten slightly fed up, and told me to get more confidence.I need help, I don't know how to get more confidence, and let him into my life fully.Even when I want to more than anything else on this world.
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reader, Xolani  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 He loved what he saw that is why he is asking you to strip for him. Love your body because God created you in a unique way. Nobody is built or looks like u. You are you and only you, no one is better than you. What he see is what he gets...love youself and the body that you have and don't worry about other people because they may have the perfect body but they love something about you..So nobody is perfect...
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reader, ChantillyMarie  +, writes (28 December 2009):
But then again, aren't people usually surprising?
No person is ever the exact same.
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