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writes:I'm a young male, but I'm pretty overweight. Not morbidly obese, but pudgy. How should I dress/appear so that I am more attractive to women?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): Sad to say but if you've got a pudge you need to have the personality to make up for it. That's how jerks get away with having a "hot" body.
Personally I think a guy in a casual button down polo with jeans or khakis is a great everyday outfit. If you're slim enough to fit into the larger sizes at aeropostale/american eagle... go for it. If you're self conscious about your weight.. and then you're not sure if you're wearing appealing clothes... try a more popular brand. You'll have more confidence. You could always start to do some cardio to drop some weight. Good luck!
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reader, blueyedgirl +, writes (28 December 2009):
 I agree that baggier clothes are more slimming, and a sense of humor is much more important than weight! But you are asking about appearance... the most important things, in my opinion, are neatness and personal hygiene. Also, a nice cologne can go a long way!!! :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): The main tip I can give you is to not 'squish' yourself into clothes. When buying new clothes, try on a size bigger than you usually take, and you won't get such an 'overhang' on your jeans. A good everyday outfit would be a good pair of jeans; the hem should hang over your heels, try sitting down in them and make sure they don't show an expanse of leg lol.
Try tshirts with logos. A blank tshirt makes you look bigger, and maybe wear it with a zip thru hoodie. Get a good haircut from a professional hairdresser, and you're good to go.
Hope that helps hun,
Katie xxx
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