Am I being used and should I move on?

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I’m a 43 yo female living with my boyfriend going on 3 years. I want to be married and have told him this. He told me he wants to marry as well but wants to make sure first. I wonder if he wants to marry at all now because I came upon some missing items in his shop. Well I was looking for drugs because he would lead me out of the shop when ever I go to visit him. I know he likes to wear panties and at his request I’ll wear a strap-on and do him doggie style. I love him and I’m willing to please him. In the beginning of our relationship the sex was great. He was concerned and made sure I was satisfied. Once the strap-on was brought into the relationship it all changed. he hardly ever puts it in me, he says he’ll cum to quick. He never kisses me except a peck good night. In public he walks behind me. Order playboy for a year and lied about it and can hardly wait for me to go away so he can look at it. Back to the items found in his shop, I’ve been missing some panties and a couple dildos. It concerns me that he is taking my things and doing himself in his shop. I thought he only did this when we’re together. I guess I’m wanting to know am I being used and should I move on?

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