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writes:Hi, has anyone out there ever tried to win their ex-boyfriend by playing the friend card? Staying in life as a friend and hoping things take their natural course to reconciliation? thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, trueatheart  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 I just tried it for a month with my ex, in the hope he would have a change of heart. He dumped me then said he wanted to keep in touch and talk if I wanted to. We spoke about twice on the phone, I used to do most of the texting and it would take him at least 2 days to reply with some silly comment and the usual 'Hope ur ok'. It just made me feel worse in the end so I put it to him that he really couldn't care less about me and I got no response after that. So no, the 'just friends' thing certainly didn't work for me. It just prolonged the pain of breaking up for good.
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reader, old-spinstah +, writes (28 December 2009):
I tried it once. I didn't work and stopped me from moving on. I had to sever contact after about 2 years as it became too painful.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 December 2009):
Yes, once. I didn't work. It almost never does. You need to move on, or you'll just be hurt for the rest of your life.
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