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writes:7 weeks ago I got back together with my ex boyfriend whom I am very much in love with..He has said he loves me but only whilst he is drunk never whilst sober. I really do love him but I dont want to be the first to say it. He has not mentioned the fact he said it whilst drunk..Maybe he doesnt remember? And maybe im reading too much into it?Anyway he means so much to me and like I said I love him but the problem is I think I may love him TOO much..I think its possible to love somebody too much..and I am terrified of losing him. How can I get over my paranoia? Its not like hes actually done anything wrong...Its just everything seems too good to be true! I'm terrified he will leave me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): This sounds like a very one sided relationship. That's a very bad sign if he only says he loves you while drunk. It is also a bad sign that you have broken up before, no matter what the reason was. I would say you need to leave him because he does not care for you as much as you care for him. You will be the one hurt by this in the end, and why put yourself through that? You need to take off your rose colored glasses and see him for who he really is.
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reader, Jodie_Kinsz +, writes (28 December 2009):
 It just seems he gains confidence after consuming alcohol, so you take girl power! and tell him how you feel, and he may grow confidence in return to say it back!
hope this helps you!
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