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writes:I have been going out with my current bf for just a little over 2 years. He has just gone back for two weeks during the holidays to visit family and he assures me that he is not going to meet any female. We have had problems in the past about meeting up singly with him meeting up just girls or me just guys, I guess we are both very insecure. Last night, I did something I probably shouldn't have, I went onto his site, which is sort of like a facebook but not, and right away I find him with pictures of him and only girl friends whom I have never met drinking, who also live here but have just gone back for the holidays. I jokingly brought it up that hes probably there meeting up girls, and he denies ever meeting up with old friends or contacting them because there would be other girls. He claims that he JUST stays with family. That really upset me as he completely lied to my face over and over again. I want to confront him about this, that I did see the pictures but I can only see this getting into a major fight. I feel that if I just forget about this thinking "oh they are just friends" he will just continue to do things behind my back in fear of me being upset. What should I do??
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reader, Jager  +, writes (28 December 2009):
he's dont nothing wrong yet. These photos could be of him with a family member. You might be being inscure however if you think he is cheating and you can prove he is lying then get rid of him love
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reader, ChantillyMarie  +, writes (28 December 2009):
No offense, but if it wasn't bad, why would he deny it?
Just tell him you saw his site, & The pictures on it, and say "Don't get mad, I just want to know."
If he accuses you of being paranoid and what not, explain to him again what's what.
Obviously you're feeling insecure over these girls, as you should be, he's your man and what not.
But try being very delicate with the situation.
I find that if I'm with my boyfriend and I want to know something, I straight out ask him, (Or otherwise he gets impatient. Haha Men.)
But that's not for everyone.
So I advise doing it very... Delicate like.
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