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writes:The other day I ran into the guy I was seeing over the summer. He ended it with me because he still had feelings for his ex. Well he went back to his ex and ended it agaaain with her. He has been chasing me ever since Aug. He said it was a big mistake and he messed up in the long run. He said he wasn't confused until she came back in the picture. Well I saw him the other day at a party and he wouldn't stop looking at me. My friends noticed... even people that I didn't know noticed. I just ignored him. But eventually, I gave in and we were talking. We made out. He was sweet and he asked me out on a date (as he has been for the past 6 months) and I gave in again and said yes.I don't know if this is a good idea or not. Apart of me thinks I should see him again because we weren't official during the summer (I even saw other guys) so he could have went back with his ex. Another part of me feels that he will leave me for another girl. (He said it was a mistake to see her and she is out of the picture for good). HELP! Should I give him a second chance?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): I don't think he got over his ex that quickly if he dumped you to go back to her. Maybe I'm cynical, but is it possible she dumped HIM and now he doesn't want to be alone? I don't get the part about how he wasn't confused until she came back in the picture. Either he still had feelings for her or not, no matter where she was! I think you should tell him you made a mistake and he needs to get lost; he seems really unsure how he feels about anyone, and it will be you who gets hurt in the end. If you do stay with him, you probably won't be able to trust him because he's left you already, so what kind of relationship will that be anyway?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 December 2009):
Not a good idea at all. He left you for his ex, then came running back. What happens if she comes into his life again? He shouldn't have screwed up in the first place. I think you can do better if you want the truth.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 How is what he is saying now different from what he said before?
And how is he acting differently?
What exactly has changed?
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reader, doom  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 Hi, i think you should give him another chance, i think he is a guy that learns on his mistakes.Maybe just ask him about his ex, if he has some fealings left.Good luck
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