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anonymous
writes: I need some help. There's this girl who i really like. She told me that she has a crush on me and i took advantage of it. She is still not my girlfriend. We have been fine these past months but i can't help to think that she's avoding me. She never replies to my text message and she never ask how i really feel. She said to me that she has many crush and it makes me very jealous but i know jealousy wouldn't benefit me. I think she found someone better than me and it really hurts me a lot. What should i do? Should i still wait?
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reader, yussuf +, writes (28 December 2009):
Had a similar case like yours and what i did was, stop calling and texting her and after a few days she sent me a message asking why? lol! i suggest you do the same bro, don't act clingy or needy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): Hi. I'm the one who post this question. I didn't reject her nor she messed me. She's doesn't want to make a commitment and she said that she didn't want to get hurt. I wanted to wait for as long as i can, hoping for an answer. I still wonder if something bad happened to her or she just don't want to reply to my txt message. Maybe now she's spending some time with her other crushes. (sigh) Anyways, thanks for answering my questions. I might post another one. So please help me out.
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reader, Jager +, writes (28 December 2009):
I think she's messing you about mate. Ditch her and find someone who only wants you and you like for more than just the convinence of it
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): She told you she had a crush on you... you rejected her... she has moved on... thats normal. How about you tell her that you really like her and leave it up to her... if she still likes you she will reciprocate... if not... then she is over it and you need to move on too
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