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Why did he break up with me after a month? How do I get over that?

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Question - (28 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *odie_Kinsz writes:

Hey! You seem like you give good advice, and I'm in need of some! Please, help me!

My name is Jodie, I'm fifteen years old.

Well there is a boy called Tom in my life, he is a former boyfriend, and I'm madly, in love with him, so much he's mostly all I can focus on, but that isn't the problem....

We dated a few months ago, it was a pretty intense, and wonderfully romantic relationship - and i loved every second of it, but sadly for me he ended it with me after about a month of being boyfriend and girlfriend, I still don't really know why his excuse was that "he liked being a flirt" but I'm still not convinced thats why. It caused me to get depression, so I stayed away and moved to my Aunt's in the States, just for three weeks - I needed a break! But I'm back in England now, and I went to a Paramore concert with him in late November, and my heart still craves him, I saw him in town, and he was too hard to avoid I went and hugged him, and it made me feel on top of the world just to hold him, once more. But that isn't all when we were at Paramore, I wanted to kiss him, and it seemed as though he wanted to kiss me, but I didn't want to make a false move, so I didn't persue what I wanted to do, and have regretted it ever since, I still want him back. Please how do you fall out of love with someone? Because they'll never love you back?

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A female reader, Blackqueen United States +, writes (29 December 2009):

Hi I'm 16 and I live in the states and I understand what your going through! I got over a guy that I liked but just too nervous to make a move on him because I'm really shy and I knew and he liked me! I regretted no talking to him! I found myself thinking about him evryday! I realized that finding someone else to like helped alot! But in your case maybe you should talk to him one last time about how you felt when he broke up with you and how he really hurt you! Girl just get it off your chest and I pro use you'll feel alot lighter and burden free! New love always comes when your not looking for it! Good luck Hun!-the American girl

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