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writes:i met my bf 3 mnths ago,and we were so in love and talked about a future together,everythin was fine ,then he found out his ex has had a baby 3 mnths ago and ius saying it is his,he says he needs time to sort his head out till after the dna test,but still wants to be with me ,but he wont answer my calls or texts,what am i meant to do?
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reader, meg2989  +, writes (30 December 2009):
 Caring Guy is right. This may not mean that he doesn't want to be with you, but having been told you have had a baby when he didnt even know that his ex was pregnant in the first place is a huuuge shock, babies really change your life. Has he taken the DNA tests, and have the results even come back yet. Why don't you wait a two days then call him. You may get his message machine, thats okay. Just ask him how he is and if theres anything you can do to help him or the baby. I think if your sensitive to him, he'll start to come around. I could be wrong, but just try it and see.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 December 2009):
I'm afraid you have to give him time. He's got a lot to think about. Give him time, and see what happens.
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