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writes:ok. there is this girl whom i fell in love with. We've been together these past months. Still she wont make a commitment. She told me that she was scared of being hurt. I told her that i wouldnt hurt her cuz i reaaly love her. She's still 16 years old and im 17. I said to her that i would wait until she's ready. She already met my parents and i met hers. But still i cant get the feeling that she's more attracted to another guy. She told me that i was the first who courted her personally cuz other guys courted her through text message. Before christmas eve she told me if i want to come along and help her out( she's a member of a choir/church group )in the school ( there's a program for the poor children ) After the program she and her friends(with me) went to her house and that's when i met her parents. Before i went home her friends ask me a few questions like "why did you like her" i became a little nervous. and her friend said it's not good to think about your answer because that's not true love so answered her directly. her friend told me to never make her cryIt kinda made an impact on me when her her friend told that to me. and i kept thinking to myself is maybe her friend told her that. that maybe she should not love me cuz im not true to my words. maybe because of this she's not replying to my text message. I really miss her a lot. and while she's away i kept thinking that she's with some other guy that she likes. She also told me that she love but i never really knew if that was true. and now while im writing this post. i still keep on thinking that if she' really loves me she would answer my text even if she's busy. she also said to me that she didn't want me to go away. she didn't even say goodmorning to me. What should i do now?? Should i still wait until she's ready??
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reader, xAx  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 Yes you should wait til she is ready. As that would give her time to realise in herself that you can be trusted. As she isn't replying to your texts, try to meet up with her. The issue about her friends, they are only trying to protect their friend. Always be nice to her friends as their opinion matters to your girlfriend.I think that you should buy your gf a gift or something to make her feel special e.g. box of chocolates...flowers...
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