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female
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anonymous
writes: Hi,sorry to blab on but i am having some difficulties getting over this situation..So i was on and off with this guy for about three years, our families are very close well our mothers are very good friends so he is someone that has been around for a while. I always had boyfriends and he always seemed to remain single. Any who over the summer we actually spent a good three - four months together but i was not quite ready for what he wanted so i left. Time passed didn't hear from him then his mother invited the family to stay with him and them for a little while, so stayed for around 5 days or so and it was amazing the connection me and him shared was out of this world, i can truly say i was at my happiest. so eventually i left and the night before i left we just lay talking about everything which i don't usually do and i just had a feeling like it was right. Well i left we said goodbye and we both cried? but that was the last i heard from him, and i don't know what the f**k happened. I am so confused i have tried to talk to him but he will not talk to me... me and his mum talk a lot over text but i don't want her to be involved in the situation. I am just so lost and i want him more than ever i keep talking about him and thinking about him.I can't just get over the situation ? Advice or some answers on why he may have done this are much..Appreciated. Thanks
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reader, doom +, writes (28 December 2009):
i'm sorry for this question but can you detail this situation:"Well i left we said goodbye and we both cried? "
Well i think he is a sensitive guy,shy also. Of course you are doing the right thing by not involving his other, but try to talk to her let's say, ask her "how is she doing, the family, and ask about her son then".in general questions.
Or you could just give him a call at home.I think you just you were too opened to him,that's great happy for you too, but try calling him, meet up in the city. He could be a could friend, or maybe more who knows.
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