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30-35,
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writes:So heres my question,I've been having a year long affair with my college tutor. It was great at the beginning all the excitement and stuff that came with it. Yes he is married and she is another tutor at college. And yea they both teach me. It really was fun at the begining but now its more habbit. So the problem is, he told me he was going to leave his wife and be single so we could see each other when ever we wanted, i wasnt really bothered if he did or didnt, i knew they was having problems. ( and no it wasnt anything to do with me) Then she says to the class she is pregnant but as she was telling the class, her husband txt me saying he wasnt going to leave her because of the baby, i was totally cool with this. But what gets me mad is he still is wanting me, i've told him that he needs to get real and start being a real husband and dad. He wont leave me alone, i've changed my number and email and he got them both via college, i dont want to tell anyone in college because he will loose everything if college and his wife found out. I just dont know how to handle this with out us getting into serious trouble but he wont leave me alone
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reader, Carrot2000  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 Tell him you will tell his wife everything if he doesn't leave you alone and mean it. You played a dangerous game and if you lose everything, well, those are the consequences of your actions.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 December 2009):
He's used you and wants to continue using you. And to be having an affair with a student is illegal. You have to tell someone if you want it to end. He has used you.
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