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writes:hello all, ive let my problems pile up over the years and now ive got to sort them, i want to completely change my life because everything in it is wrong ive been in an on off relationship with my daughters dad for 12 yrs and im tired now he was always controlling and its been a nightmare hes pretty much finishd me i have no strength left, ive been a carer since i left school and i think it has made me a selfish person, the continuous demands from the clients and the bitching and backstabbing from the girls i have no confidence and listening to them just bein plain nasty about each other all the time i didnt turn up for work today and didnt ring in because they are vultures and unless your in the top ten friends no reason is good enough, and im not going back, im sat feeling very guilty about boyfriend and work and feel completely alone need advice or maybe home truths thanx xx[Moderator's note: Please add more details about your relationship so it is clearer why you say you feel guilty about it.]
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 December 2009):
You sound like you really need to evaluate your life, maybe start over. Stop the relationship with your daughter's father. He's only hurting you and using you. And maybe think about retraining in a new job. People can let a lot of things get to them, but choose to ignore them until they finally can't. You've reached the stage where it's all getting to you so much you can't ignore it any more. Maybe try counselling and get all your feelings out, or start a hobby you've dreamed of doing, or a new career. Your feeling bad because nothing seems to be going anywhere. So start over. And have a holiday as well. That'll give you some time away to think.
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