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*hristian L.
writes: Why is my girlfriend not telling me things? She won't even tell me what is wrong. But she tells all of her friends. What do I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, doom +, writes (28 December 2009):
Be calme, she is young give her space, and stop asking always "what's wrong"!! i know ,you know that you care about her, tell her this words: "that you'll be with her no matter what" and try making her laugh)))good luck
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 December 2009):
There are some things men are not meant to know. Girl things! Don't worry, it's not that she doesn't trust you. It's just that her female friends can probably be of more help. Always ask her what's wrong she knows you're there for her, and always be willing to listen and not say a word. but don't take it personally.
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reader, Jodie_Kinsz +, writes (28 December 2009):
Two words - Girl time.
It's nothing personal towards you or disrespect to your trust, she just needs time to talk to her girls about things.
Leave her to it if she doesn't want to discuss something with you, and she might think if you give up asking - that she can tell you about the things your not noticing; even though you are, but it's a smart way to get her to come back to you and tell you these things you want to know.
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