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*ovelychristina
writes: I have 1 son with my baby daddy and I am pregnant with another baby boy with him but he left me when I was 3 months. We were arguing a lot because he was the only one working and I was going to school.after I finish school I found out I was pregnant with are second baby. He didn't want to keep the baby and from there on he distance himself from me. Im about to give birth in 3 weeks and its been hard. He tells me he misses me sometimes and he doesn't know what he wants. Sometimes he tells me he still loves me and other times he say he don't. I miss him a lot but I know I have to let him go. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): If he can't make up his mind, then he doesn't really want to be with you and you should let him go. Don't let him take you on an emotional rollercoaster, going back and forth all the time. Focus on yourself and taking care of your children.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 December 2009):
You focus entirely on yourself and your baby. Though you are in pain because of your boyfriend, you need to be focused because your new born will need a mum who is healthy and happy. So rather than worry about your boyfriend, spend tim on yourself and your child. Good luck!
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