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*umaralpha
writes: hello everyone; i am a male, 25.. and i am still a virgin... and i always wonder if girls like having sex as much as guys do...; talking of asian girls they are very shy and find it immoral to talk about sex..; it doesn't seem that they enjoy doing it. waiting for responses..
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reader, Leo1989 +, writes (29 December 2009):
in a one word answer yes. well i certainly do anyway ;)
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (29 December 2009):
Perhaps Asian women are a bit shy about talking about it, but all women generally enjoy sex, or making love, just as much as guys. Put emphasis on the words "making love" rather than "having sex." The latter term is way too brash for most women, but with a caring and loving man, most any woman truly loves sharing the marvelous joys of sex.
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reader, baddogbj +, writes (29 December 2009):
Please also see the question posted today from a girl "Too obsessed with the desire to have sex." There is part of your answer.
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reader, baddogbj +, writes (29 December 2009):
I don't know about Indian girls but Chinese and Thai and Mongolian girls certainly do and I'm sure that Indian girls are no different.
Be caring.
Be confident.
Be clean and have a clean and comfy environment.
Have condoms available and know how to open the packs and put them on.
DON'T RUSH.
Compliment her, but not meaningless general compliments like "you're so beautiful" over and over again. Pick specific things to highlight and praise whilst you touch or lick them, like her lips or her nipples. These are the tastiest nipples I've ever tasted...
Use your mouth - go and read Double M's "how to's" on the subject. This is the key to a successful first time. First it pretty much guarantees that she will have a good time. It will make you look experienced and it will get you over the natural "performance anxiety" issues for the first time. Your penis might let you down if you are nervous but your tongue won't. If you use your tongue right then your penis will just be a bonus.
Hold her afterwards and tell her again how beautiful she is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): I think that the only difference between them 'liking' it or not is the risks that can come with it. For one it actually hurts for a girls 'first time'. Also if they get pregnant their in BIG TROUBLE (If they didn't want to be in the first place) If the risks and responsibilities didn't come with it. Then I think it would entirely depend on the person him or herself personal opinion and not whether they are male or female.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): if your a virgin i don't know how you'll do it right since you have no expirience. but do not worry love a guy has a natural instinct to ''do it right'' now your question is ''do girls like having sex as much as guy do?'' all i can say is yes .yes we do. i love it when my mann is inside of me,, i don't ask for oral because simple penetration is enough to feed my need. (knowing he's willing to do oral for me is just a plus) but alot a girls like tht though. &JustCuzWeDntTalkAbout itDoesn'tMeanWeDntLike it
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): They can like it more. Depends on who they're with and what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): YESYESYESYES lol
it may be a cultural difference...the not talking about it and being shy..
however i promise you that if you do it right, she will love it as much as you do. :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 December 2009):
They do when a man spends time on them, listens to them and cares for them. Have patience and show her you care.
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