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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am 21 and have a high libido. My boyfriend of one year has a hard time keeping up with me. So much so that we fight about it more than I think is healthy. It really has caused some emotional problems with me. When he withholds it makes me worry that he doesn't feel for me as I do for him or that he just doesn't enjoy it. What can I do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 December 2009):
You can look at yourself. Yes, you have a high libido, but you also seem to connect sex to whether your boyfriend truly loves you. Have you been hurt in the past, or do you believe that sex is the only way you can feel beautiful and loved? Maybe you have esteem issues with yourself that make you believe the only way you can be beautiful is if your boyfriend has sex with you? You shouldn't be fighting with your boyfriend about this. He enjoys you, he loves you, he probably worships the ground you walk on. So look carefully at yourself and ask yourself if you're truly happy and whether your own esteem is high enough.
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