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anonymous
writes:hey, im 18 and bi. i have recently been fooling around with another guy that i met at college. both of us are still in the closet and no one knows about it. My problem is that im starting to date this girl at college also. me and the guy have still kept on fooling around even though i have not initated any of it. The furthest thing i got with this girl is just kissing anyway. and now that we are on break both of them keep txting me the girl saying how much she misses me and the guy wat he wants to do to me. I really care about this girl but this guy knows more about me than my friends do and vice versa. Is this considered cheating...i feel aweful for this secret but i wanna know what i should do. HELP!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok well to help a little more the guy knows the whole situation and is still ok with it. Its the girl that im worried about. i dont wanna come right out and tell her that im bi cause the school that i go has many people who have conservative views and i dont want her to be offended or freaked out then telling everyone about it....
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reader, miss lilian  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 Does the guy know about the girl? Would he mind if you were with them both? From the girls point of view though unless you say you want an open relationship then she will see it as cheating. If you are unsure of which person you want be frank about not wanting a comitted realtionship with her and let her take the decision from there.
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