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writes:hey thereok i have been coming here for awhile now and my bf has just been making me so depresset. he is to into his video games i have been trying to set up a day where i can see him and i asked him if he would wanna stay the night tomorrow and wake up together on our anny. of 5 months and he could just say he is staying the night at a friends house and he said babe i doubt im going to be able to and i said why and he was like i just have a feeling im not going to be able to and i was like do you even want to come over and he was like oh my gosh we go through this every time... if i didnt want to come over i would just tell you. But it just makes no since its like he isnt even trying to come see me or like he doesnt even want to see me. i really want to know what to do. i dont want to be pushy or clingy, and i use to be very clingy. but i havent seen him in 4 days and we have barely talked these past 4 days we talk maybe a total of an hour on the phone and texting together so he has had plenty of space. So i dont i dont want to be in a relationship if he dont want to actually be with me in person. so if you could please tell me what i could do so i can be happy but not pushy or clingy and not make him mad. thanks so much :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): Teenage boys are VERY immature; added is the fact that you both have different ideas of what a relationship should be like. I think you should break up with him and find someone else who REALLY wants to be with you and spend time with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): Here's the thing...you want a boyfriend and he wants to be a typical teenage guy. you want him to be all about you..but for the most part teenage guys want to be ...teenagers. girls want to be all in all to the guy but the guy just wants to be the boyfriend part of the time. its normal. he wants you to be part of his life...you want him to BE your life. he's just not there. give him space to grow up. its time to move on if you are expecting him to be what he isnt yet. as the mother of 4 sons, i see this a lot. girls just smother them and dont even mean to or realize that they do. boys mature at a different rate than girls do. it takes them longer to reach exclusivity. mal
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): drift away from him, dont text or call him & if he is really interested he will get in touch with you. I would not stand for this I have been in a similar situtation before.
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