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writes:The man i'm dating says to me that since there isn't a commitment between us, i shouldn't be jealous. Although i try to hide this feeling, sometimes it is obvious especially when he provokes me. Should i make him to realize that i don't like some things or should i hide every feeling of jealousy? Although i don't feel jealousy easily, this man causes this to me because he makes me feel insecure. How should i react so as not destroy the time that we spend together?
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (24 October 2008):
 Personally if there is no committment between you and he keeps on provoking you then ask him to stop it right away.
Tell him you are not easily jealous but you feel like he is doing this to provoke a reaction from you and make him feel much more powerful within this relationship.
By keeping you on your toes and never knowing what his next move is he will always have the upper hand on you where the relationship is concerned.
Don't give him the satisfaction of reacting in future and if it gets too much, then walk away as he doesn't seem like great bf material if this is the game he is playing as there could be a really decent man out there for you and you are wasting your love and energy on someone who has a lot of insecurities that he needs to have them reaffirmed all the time.
Good luck and let us know how you get on.
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reader, Serenity1  +, writes (24 October 2008):
 Yeah, just hide the way you feel, then he'll wonder why you're NOT showing signs of jealousy. It's all a game when dating and sometimes even in commited relationships. Don't let him see you sweat
TM
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